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writes:I have a friend who ive known since Feb this year. Ever since me and my ex broke up 2 months ago, he has been showing me alot more attention. He has told me he likes me alot and we went out last weekend and we went for a walk along the beach and he held my hand, and he hugged and kissed me goodbye. So yeh its pretty clear he likes me mroe then a friend. However im unsure if he wnats a relationship or not...or just wnats to sort of casualy date.I dont want a serious relationship and dont want to settle for anything less. I know that if i do settle for anything less I will end up geting hurt cause I realy have fallen for him.The reason why i think he may not want a serious relationship is because he hasnt really had any serious gfs before. But im not sure if thats cuz its just never worked out of if thats cuz thats all he wanted.He doesnt sleep around or have casual sex or anything, i know that for sure. what do u think? since he hasnt had really any serious gfs does that mean he prob woudlnt want a serious relationship with me to? or may i be something different? i think he knows i want a actual bf, not just somoene to date cuz i told him a while ago that i would like to be in a relationship again...do you think i shoud talk to him about it? if so, how do i talk to him about it? i dont know how to bring the topic up. thanks for your advice! i am 18 years old and he is 19.
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reader, dapone 1  +, writes (16 October 2007):
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I think you should go out and enjoy each others company for a while longer, then you will have a greater bond between your selfs, when the time is right all will fall into place, do not rush yourself into a situation were you may frighten him away, or scare him into leaving you, be happy and enjoy each others company, then you may be amazed at the result.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 October 2007): thats a hard one - if he never has had a serious gf before chances are he won't want one with you at least for now anyways - I say give it sometime and see if anything blossoms
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reader, Tommy7  +, writes (16 October 2007):
I think you are jumping the gun. You should go out with him for awhile and let the relationship take it's natural course. Don't try to be so controlling.
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