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How do I talk to him and get to know him?

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Question - (22 March 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 22 March 2009)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

So there's this guy at school.. he's amazingly cute. But I only see him around the hallways, and we have no classes together. So we never talk.. I really wish I could get to know him better, but I feel that it would be so awkward just walking up to him randomly and talking to him. I want to get to know him first before I can really say I like him.. so what do I do?

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A female reader, bOy CrAzY;} United States +, writes (22 March 2009):

Well u should start it out slow by just saying hi at how's it going just something like that and then when u guys are like talking and stuff just ask him if he wouldnlike to hang out then just get close to him that way;) good luck hope it helps;)

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (22 March 2009):

i am a junior in high school and i've been through what you're going through many times. the best thing you can do is join a club/sport/extracurricular he's in.

subtly ask around and find out what he does, and join it! then you can get to know him through a school activity. e.g. he's in recycling club at school. join the recycling club, sit next to him at meetings, smile at him! in the hallway, initiate a conversation by asking him something simple - "hey, is recycling club meeting today?" and let the conversation flow from there.

i've joined mock trial, newspaper, and french club just to get to know guys i thought were cute. it usually works out! - unless you actually get to know the guy and realize they're a jerk. haha :P

good luck!!

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