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writes:this guy, a complete player once used to mess me about. I am now not seeing him anymore but recently we have been back in touch and i want to give him a dose of his own medicine. I want to make him think that I can be a player too. Don't get me wrong, i am not saying I want revenge but I just want him to find me interesting. So how do i act like I am interesting????thanks
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reader, veronica579  +, writes (30 December 2010):
hun, this is revenge, ive been played before its not pretty. any ways 6 easy ways to play him, worked for me.
1. make him think ur busy and have no time to even think about him or even talk to him.
2. make him jelouse, tell him how many guys asked for your number.
3. tease him a little, say something flirty and sexy but dnt make him think ur a slut.
4 the real fun begins, by this point ur okay now with ur relationship u still talk. now u just need to text him u can not belive what happened today im so excited when he replies back whats so exciting dnt answer back. he will be so ticked u did not reply.
5. at this point hes probably tryna get with u again, but dnt forget ur mission, tease him again and say u wish u had this, if he asks why we broke up just tell him that he was just for ur entertainment thats all.
6. love em and leave em! tell him ur going to the movies, and asked if he wants to come with, then before he even answers tell him never mind found some one else. this will work best over the phone or internet.
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reader, Loutbe +, writes (2 September 2010):
Let me tell you, I just went through a summer of being fooled and thinking that a relationship was going somewhere to find out I was just the summer love, well this is what I did. I ignored him, and I don't mean it as in forget him, I would find ways to make him talk to me without EVER talking to him, but knowing he would notice. Then I would ignore him when he tried to talk to me but talk to someone else right after theytried to talk to you. He gets mad, tells me he's upset and I don't care. Make him feel the same pain you felt, guys are nothing.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 November 2006): Arange to meet him with the promise of some 'fun', dont turn up then just forget about him forever. He will probably catch something nasty off someone at some point....
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 July 2006): Revenge IS sweet, but it can always backfire, and in this case, I think it will. I tried this once, I was with a player for FOUR years without suspecting a thing. I did everything imaginable, I lost my virginity to him, everything. I found out about his other girls by going to a club with him, and having him leave me for a different girl every 10 minutes.
So, feeling awful, I decided to get revenge. He felt VERY jealous and it was all fine, up until I started getting called a slut. That was the worst year of my life, there is nothing worst than your own friends calling you 'slag', 'slut', 'whore'. I'm not saying you are obviously but, there is always that risk of the name calling.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 June 2006): If a guy is a player and you didn't manage to make a relationship with him last time..chances are it's going to be the same old thing over again and you will get hurt. I was seeing a player and had my suspicions, but found out after I had fallen for him that he had been sleeping with loads of other girls I was devastated. For revenge I slept with other guys and told him everything about it. But the thing is it never made him jealous and want me because he had another 3girls on the go.Its strange because he's not God's gift to women either. In the end I ended up feeling worse, because whether I was good or bad he was never going to be interested in me. I had to cut my ties, he still gets in touch now and again to see if 'I'm up for it',I ignore him. I know that I want a loving relationship with someone who genuinely cares. Not with an immature, arrogant, conceited, ass of a guy. Don't waste your time on him playing his games, use your time to find someone who really cares,loves and respects you.
Mind you, I do have this evil thought often...Luring him into a hotel room handcuffing him naked to the bed, throwing the keys away and leaving him there :)
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