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*XxmuddpuppiexXx
writes:Im 19 and been in an relationship with my boyfriend since my fresman yr in HS....and we havn t had sex yet. But recantly we ve been trying to and each time i do the same thing. IM still a virgin and i want to have sex with him i go over to his house and we start touching, kissing and eventually our clothes are off except our undergarments.he goes to remove my panties(by now his are off)and he does the before thing with his fingers.he goes in with the penis and i freeze up say i cant and leave. but i DO. HELP!
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reader, xXxmuddpuppiexXx +, writes (8 January 2009):
xXxmuddpuppiexXx is verified as being by the original poster of the question thx peeps! I'm glad you answered me.... my mom and I talk a lot and I asked her but she just laughed and walked away.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 January 2009): You've been with this guy for 5 years! You're scared, plain and simple. I think you are absolutely ready for sex, but you're not letting yourself enjoy it due to intense anxiety and fear that is preventing you from enjoy one of life's gifts. It you were a virgin, sitting on a bar stool, and just met someone, and realized the mistake, fine, but you're clearly involved in a committed relationship, and you;re sexuuallya active. This guy sounds like a good guy, patient. You're lucky.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 January 2009): In my opinion this is a sign your not ready. Even though you may feel like you really want to, if when you come to it you can't then maybe you shouldent just yet. I suggest you should wait a little longer until you couldent be more comfortable with it. Orr if you want to do it now, when you do go round his house, do alot of foreplay with him to help get your body fully ready for it. I had the same problem but what i did was waited longer into the relationship and then when we came to do it and i started to freeze up i would just relax as much as i could and breathe calmly and count to ten or somthing in my head a few times while it was the hard part to help my body relax. maybe you should try the same? Hope its been good advise for you.. Good luck!
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