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36-40,
*ubblygirl
writes:I need advice on how to stop feeling hurt by what this guy does.This guy i know uses girls for attention..it looks like he likes them because he touches them, hugs them, goes to parties with them (one girl in particular now) but since he's single, all he's looking for is attention..not a relationship, he told me.But he did this with me before (all the touching) and it hurts seeing him to this to another girl now and not me.How do i get over this and stop feeling hurt when i see them together all the time?? Help!! Reply to this Question
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reader, M][KE  +, writes (8 July 2008):
Hey, I'm sorry your hurting...
Unfortunately in life both boys and girls do this.
However more often than not even if both people understand they are in a casual relationship. At least one of them usually starts to develop more intense feelings towards the other.
This sounds like the situation your in and it's just human nature. And I guarantee that you wont be the only girl hes dated who feels like this.
To help ease this pain you feel, I think you need to ask yourself some major questions.
Do I really want to be with this guy?
This guy as you say loves attention, but from many different girls and in the same respect you loved the attention he gave you! Maybe you just miss the companionship and support he was giving you.
What I'm trying to say is maybe you should focus on finding someone who can give you these qualities. I'm positive when you find this new person, this guy who's hurting you now will fade away. Remember you were fine before him and your going to be fine without him.
In love theres no pill you can take to make the pain go away. You need time to understand what you want! Only then will you realize that this guy was just not good for you.
Don't deny yourself happiness because of this Guy. Not every guy is like him.
I hope this helped you, good luck. M][KE
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reader, john08 +, writes (8 July 2008):
move on, give it time and wait untill you find someone
or you could just try and avoid them for a while
the second may help the first
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