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writes: hi.i hav a 10 month old baby and not with her dad.i met a guy a few weeks back and we've become close and we want to be together.his ex is 4 months pregnanyt though.he says he doesnt love her and that it was only a sexual relationship.she's pressuring him to marry her but he's told her he wont and tells me he want to be with me.says he loves me.its hard though coz she and her family wont leave him alone.she's his best friends cousin.and he too wants him to marry her.what do i do.i want to walk away but i love him.he's the best thing thts ever hapenned to me and he loves me too but how can we make this work when she wont leave him alone and follows him everywhere
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reader, Phoebe Halliwell  +, writes (18 June 2006):
 Hi,
well you obviously know your boyfriend wants to be with you - and only you. Which is a great start to a realtionship. But you have to remember that his ex wants her Baby to have a Daddy, she wants him for the interest of her child. Why don't you try talking to his ex? She wants him, you want him - so try and meet somewhere in the middle? How about, when the baby is born he makes weekly visits so the Baby knows it's Dad but you two can have a proper relationship together. You go shopping for an hour or so on a Saturday and he visits the Baby and then you and him can meet for lunch? This may bother you that he's still seeing his ex but remember - he wants to be with you, not her, he left her for you. You know that so trust in him not to do anything stupid.
Hope this helped!
Phoebe
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