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female
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30-35,
*illybean234
writes:My boyfriend and I have been going out for three months and its been great, were both in love. I know that he would never cheat on me and that im the only one he wants however, he has told me stories about someone he used to have feelings for but never told her. Now, whenever im with him and I see her walk by us in the hallway I cant help but wonder if he still likes her. Please dont tell me to talk to him about it because i have many times and the answer always remains the same: that he loves me and he has no feelings for anyone else and that he is absolutely crazy about me. That does make me feel better but whenever i see him talking to her or anything i get so jealous its sickening. She is drop dead gorgeous and I dont think im as pretty as her. People tell me I am but maybe its just the jealousy thats making me feel like she is better then me. He has to sleep over her house sometimes when his parents go away because her mom and his mom are best friends SO, i have to see that girl on christmas eve,thanksgiving, ect. Its terrible! What should i do to make sure that he loves me and only me? How could i make him fall even harder in love with me so I know for sure I am always on his mind and not her.I know he loves me, and thinks about me 24/7, but i just want to be on the safe side and step up my game a little bit. Thanks so much3
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reader, x_Hannah_x  +, writes (7 January 2009):
 Honestly you've got nothing to worry about. This girl is an ex. Your the one he's with now, if he really wanted her then he'd go back to her. If you think he wouldn't cheat then he probley won't. Us girls are pretty good detectives and can usually guess when our partners are that type. If you want to be a really nice girlfriend surprise him with a picture of you two in a frame or something. Its small things like that that guys realy like. As well its something he'd never buy for himself. Plus, he'll think of you everytime he looks at it! Hannah xx
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