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How do I make my ex regret what he did to me

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Question - (23 June 2006) 8 Answers - (Newest, 12 November 2009)
A female , anonymous writes:

I am 15. How can I make my ex boyfriend regret dumping me? He is a coward and dumped me by text. I want to make him regret it... but how?

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A female reader, teen pro United Kingdom +, writes (12 November 2009):

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look hun you cant always get what you want in life what im trying to say is not everything is going to go your way.

Life's full of surprises some good and some bad but you have to learn how to deal with it your own way.

I'm a girl and my boyfriend dumped me a week ago im heartbroken but i realised that why am i goin to cry over a player who used me.

Take my advice; boys there all the same. Your better off being single no boys nothing you could be free.

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A female reader, loveuxoxo United States +, writes (2 January 2009):

loveuxoxo agony auntthe thing is if he would dump you through text then he is a huge jerk and you dont want him. and i know it hurts a lot right now but its not worth making them regret it. cause what is done is done. and you need to show him and yourslef your better then that. and you will find someone better that you dont need to make regret it cause they would never dump u in the first place. just keep taking deep breathes and just remember if he is meant to regret it he will. i hope this helps.

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A female reader, cherry_red_lipstick United Kingdom +, writes (6 July 2008):

ok so heres what you do....

first of all you realise that you are way hotter than him and that he's not even worthy of the effort you put into posting your question

however i know that at the moment its difficult to not want to rip part of his anatomy off and feed them to the neighbours dog...

so...first, you help yourself

you hang out with friends make a list of all the hobbies and things you want to do with your life and you do them, theres no better motivation than seeing the look on his face when he realised that you are SOO much better than he is....

second go out get your hair done, buy some new outfits and basically just look amazing, then comes the hard bit...

ignore him, dont lash out because the more you say the worse the outcome, just ignore him, nothing gets to boys more than when theyre being ignored

if hes dumping you by text then he is DEFFINATELY the kind of guy that will try to make YOU jealous just to make you feel miserable

so dont let him

go out with your mates, dont rush into a new relationship but dont be scared to flirt with other boys

and remember, you are in a different league to him...hes beneath you and he always will be and you dont need anyone else in your life to complete you =)

hope that helps xxx

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A male reader, David Lewis United Kingdom +, writes (5 December 2006):

David Lewis agony auntMove on with your life and let him see how much happier you are without him. This will dent his self pride and he will see that he obviously never made you happy.

Find somebody who will show commitment to you and give you the respect you deserve. Your ex was a coward. You deserve better.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (5 December 2006):

Hi,

I had the same thing happen to me but I think my ex still loves me (there are things that lead to this, not just my immagination - but I won't write them down here).

Anyways....

Why do you want to get back at him? Forget him. If he dumped you like that and you know for sure he doesn't love you then move on (take one of his friends out - but this looks vendictive and they may label you a whore/easy in school).

Find a guy that you love and that loves you back. That treats you well and that respects you. That gives you everything he has (even if it means he can't have what he wants).

IF YOU DON'T LOVE HIM. THEN IT WAS GOOD THAT THIS HAPPENED. You just may be mad because either he did it first or that you don't like being rejected.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (25 August 2006):

u cant make him regret esp if his feelins 4 u had gone but if u rely want 2 get 2 him just leave him alone and live your life so he will see he wasn't realy that good

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A female reader, Wendyg United Kingdom +, writes (24 June 2006):

Wendyg agony auntYou cant make anyone regret anything if they dont want to. Hes done it now, you have to accept it and move on. His lose. yes hes a coward for doing it over text, but if hes like that then you are better off without him!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (23 June 2006):

Nice, this again...

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