A
male
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:So me and this girl really like each other, but the other day she told me she was scared that I only loved her because she loved me. This is my first real love/relationship. I've had my doubts, I've been worried that something like that was true, that my feelings weren't 100% genuine. We did this test we learned in psychology class, it's like a lie detector test. Anyway, she asked me if I only loved her because she loved me. It came back "positive". She was devastated obviously. I think I feel for her for more then just that reason, but since the test, well I'm worried. I don't want to keep going with this, unless I know whether or not that is the only reason. Is there any other way I can tell? Reply to this Question
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female
reader, Moo's Mum  +, writes (28 July 2010):
 Love is a gradual thing that builds up over time. Lust is instant and responsible for the feelings that make you feel as if you can't be out of the person's sight. If you find her attractive, think about her a lot enjoy being with her then relax you will grow to love her very quickly.
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