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writes: i need to know if my bf really loves me, we have been on and off for a year, when we first got together he messed me about abit and we split up for a month because he was scared to tell me he had 4 kids.we got back together and things seem to be so differant then they was before he tells me he really loves me everyday and all the time, i love him soo much but i need to know if he really means it, he has asked me to move in with him, what do u think??
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 November 2006): ALWAYS WANT TO BE VISITED BY ME WHAT TO DO CAUSE HE WANT SOMETHING WHEN I VISIT HIM.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 November 2006): O when a guy loves you , you will know..instantly. I 've had many boyfriends and I like each one of them very much but there is this guy that i am with now and I have never felt this way about any other guy before. I Feel that he is the one. Trust me..u will knw when, if he really loves u. and if not and u never really know then i guess it's not love its lust
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 August 2006): You can't "really" know if someone loves you, but it is something that you come to realise over time, many months but usually much longer in to a relationship.
That is how love is "proved"; it's shown in the choices your partner makes in their life with you.
During this time, all sorts of situations happen, problems, arguments, disagreements. Someone who does not love you will choose a life without you. Love endures like no other emotion.
A part of being ready to commit to a relationship is to have faith in them; to trust that when your partner makes a commitment to you they are being truthful and want what the same thing as you do.
Anonymous your boyfriend doesn't seem to have done any thing to make you distrust him; I agree with Phoebe. I would say though; living together is a huge commitment so make sure you are both ready for it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 August 2006): you want my advice,take it from somebody that has been married for 21 years,got divorced met someone else,have been with him for 14 years,we were really happy till his child of 14 turned up,it caused no end of problems,so i have had my fair share of bad fellas,if he could not tell you about his 4 kids,then what else has he got to hide,and to be fair you sound young do you really need to be tied down with someone eles'es baggage. it causes nothing but pain and hassle I know I have lived it.
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reader, Phoebe Halliwell  +, writes (15 August 2006):
 Hey,
well if he was messing you around again, he wouldn't ask you to move in. Maybe it's scary for him a little bit. Having a relationship when you've already got 4 kids can't be easy. Just take it one step at a time and listen to your heart.
Hope this helped,
Phoebe xxxx
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