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*MLBabyDoll
writes:how do i know if my boyfriend loves me for me and not because i talk dirty to him? i dont all the time though, i mean we also talk about other stuff too but it still makes me wonder. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 August 2008): well try to talk with him about his &your careersgo away from dirty stuf to win his heart looking for what he need then give him what he need not always sexy words he need your love
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reader, VMLBabyDoll +, writes (20 July 2008):
VMLBabyDoll is verified as being by the original poster of the questionwell its been awhile since i have, but thax besides he would need 5 yrs for anything and hes fine with that plus he says he wants to marry me
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 July 2008): If you are under the age of 15, your boyfriend has one thing on his mind, and yes your talking dirty to him is the main attraction I guess....and what in the world are you doing? You don't owe this guy that and it would be nice if all little girls under the age of 15 would value themselves enough not to go there with a boy who is a bundle of hormones looking for release.....seriously, what do you think? I am sure you are a great girl and he likes you, but try stopping the dirty talk and you may find your answer....and you may find your self respect as well, which is more important in your life than whether or not some guy likes you. Is he good enough for you? Is he treating you with respect and caring?
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 July 2008): Ok I'm 15 and when I was 13 a guy I liked ( not dating ) and me talked dirty to each other to turn one another on and as it turns out he never liked me and the only reason I did it was so that he wud like me but he never did so he basically used me. ok enought with my experince in this field. The only sure way to tell is to stop the dirty talk all together tell him you don't feel like doing it and if he's ok with it he's a keeper but if he gets mad or asks why and won't leave you alone about it or uses the old "if you really loved me you'd do it " bit then you know he only wants you for that. He could put on a good show and makes you think he cares about you but he may only care about that . so try what I said or ask him face to face "would you still love me if I didn't talk dirty with you ??I say do it face to face because it's harder to lie that way . I hope this helped you in some way. all I know is I didn't feel comfortable doing it but I did it to make him happy and thats not right . you gotta be happy to ok ?*~VG~*
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