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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:me and my bf have been together for nearli 3 yrz now, and i think he is getting bored of me now. we have both made mistakes in the past such as cheating and making fake profiles and flirting with girls. however we have managed to get over this yet, there seems to be a problem with himi try to be romantic as possible and make him realli happy by doing what he suggests. he will be happy however he will then within 2 minz ova a little mistake i make he gets sooo angry and wil start to ignore me. which then turns into a argument and comes to a breaking point where i want to leave him.i realli do love him but i dont knw what to do enimre, please help.thank u
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reader, Who  +, writes (27 December 2010):
 You know Honey most young ladies to through several break-ups, where they love a guy and lose him no matter what they do. You should brace yourself, because you may be facing one of those break-ups right now.
First, calm your spirit. Second look reality square in the face and see it for what it is.
“i try to be romantic as possible and make him realli happy by doing what he suggests.”
Is he trying to do anything to make you happy? When only one person is into the relationship and is trying to make it work, what do you think the result will be?
“…there seems to be a problem with him”
Exactly. The problem is with him.
“he will be happy however…”
Most people are as happy as they make up their minds to be. If he doesn’t want to be happy you can’t force him.
“…comes to a breaking point where i want to leave him.”
Leaving a few guys is something else most young ladies have to do a few times before they find their one true love. Leaving a boyfriend is hard, but when you do find the guy who is right for you, you will forget all about this guy and the hard time you are having now. And you will be able to use this experience to know how to work on your relationship in the future.
Good luck and hope this helps.
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