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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes: my boyfriend is okay with not seeing me for a week and im not okay with that. he is okay with it because we talk on the phone everyday, but i would rather be in his presence. he also has affection issues. now me and him have been together for a year and four months and he dosent like holding hands kissing or any type of affection unless we are alone. and i feel like everytime he does kiss me he wants sex out of it and its so hard for me to talk to him about it. now i went the first ten months without haveing sex becuze i was trying to save my virginity and the first time it happend was an accident when his thing slipped. and ever since then we just said f it and been doing it ever since but like i said i dont know how to deal with someone who has affection issues and i dont think its fair to leave becuuse i know that everyone is raised differently and not everyone is okay with showing affection so can someone give me some advice on what i should do???? cuz im in a relationship and im not happy
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 August 2010): tell him you love him, and definatly tell him whats on your mind it will help your relationship and build trust.
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