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How do I go about getting my girlfriend to try new things in the bedroom?

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Question - (4 October 2010) 2 Answers - (Newest, 6 October 2010)
A male United States age 36-40, anonymous writes:

Do most women like exploring different sexual styles? I'm considering of doing different things in sex with my girlfriend. Like using toys, watching videos while having sex, fingering her, licking her, and having sex in different places like the car or the shower or in different places around the house, as well as experimenting with different positions. And I was also wondering how I can approach the situation to my girlfriend without it seeming to weird and perverted. I love my girlfriend very much and I was just think adding a little bit of experimentation might spice up our sex life.

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A female reader, poetrygoddess United States +, writes (6 October 2010):

shit lol me and my boyfriend have tried everything. sex in the car, sex on the beach (lol like the drink), sex in bathrooms, etc. He cums on my tits, my face, in my mouth etc. No he didn't pressure me. I asked him to do all this stuff. I actually had to convince him lol. We've been together almost three years. We're very romantically connected but to me, sex is supposed to be filthy. romance is in pillow talk afterwards and coffee later lol I don't believe I should be judged. I'm not promiscuous. But I sure as hell like to be freaky with the man I love.

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A female reader, chey1990 Australia +, writes (4 October 2010):

you will be suprised how much your girlfriend will like these things as soon as she is comfeteble with doing these new things with you... i was the same with my boyfriend .... i found a few dvd's in his bedroom.. i got angry with him at first... but then i just told him i would rather him watch them with me not by himself... so we did and we still do 4 years later... it just made us more cofetable and open with each other.... now we use toys, try diffrent places and its never been better..... just try it,,,.. whats the worst thing that could happen???. she knocks it back???.. at least she will know your being honest and wanting to try new things... good luck!!!

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