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anonymous
writes:My wife confessed to having an affair before we got married. This is 7 years in to our marriage. 20 years after being married she has a couple of affairs. I had no clue. Didn't ask to be told. Over 12 years have past since than and it still effects me.How do I get back the feels back of caring?
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reader, sappygirl +, writes (12 September 2008):
 you should try marraige counseling.
you obviously lost a lot of trust and respect for her.
You need to work out your problems together, because there is an underlying issue under all this.
women cheat because they are not having their emotional needs met. Good luck
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reader, thatgothgirl20 +, writes (12 September 2008):
 First you've got to get past the shock.
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