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writes:Ahhh! My friend is driving me nuts! She is so two faced and I dont trust her with anything, but behind my back she keeps calling me fridgid and flirts with my boyfriend (who tells me this) For example today they met with a few friends and she was stroking his crotch and saying 'Isn't this Becky's job? Oh wait she wouldn't do it anyway'. It drives me up the wall. The reason she thinks im fridgid is because I have been with this guy for about 10 months and done nothing but kiss. Ok well the truth is I have done A LOT more, but I just dont choose to spread my private life around. Shes just interfering because she never gets any guys and has a bad reputation. However I dont feel like blurting out my life just to get her to shut up. The only people I tell are my close friends. I have a friend who tells everyone shes had sex, but thats her choice and I dont see why this other girl expects me to be the same. How can I get her to shut up and quit calling me fridgid? Shes always bashing my confidence too. Anyone else had to deal with someone like this?
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reader, I'llTryToHelp  +, writes (8 June 2008):
 The best way to get rid of her is to ignore her and EVERYTHING she says. With friends like her, who needs enemies? I want to know why your BF allowed her to stroke his crotch!
She's obviously VERY jealous of you and what you have so try to feel sorry for her... She must have very low self-esteem because that's usually why people try to tear other people down.
Don't talk about her and if anyone tries to discuss her with you, say you don't want to hear it.
Your sex life is your business and you shouldn't discuss it with anyone. If you BF is ok with how things are going between the two of you, then that's ALL that matters.
Good Luck!
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