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51-59,
anonymous
writes:Hi I am a male of 48 yrs - since 2 yrs I am with a mistress of 42 yrs - Now she is afraid of her home to be broken - leaving me alone - I use to buy a lot of things for her. Now How can I convince her to return with me ?
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 December 2018): It looks like she has chosen her husband and her life with him. She is afraid of losing him. Not you. She has proven this by leaving you. If she loved you, she would not leave you. Love always finds a way. But she was just looking for an escape from her miserable marriage. She will eventually find another man to play with. Why would you want to be with a woman like this?
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 December 2018): Ask her to make a fair choice and tell her husband?? she wants to divorce, and if you need to do the same, then do the same, then both be together. Or find happiness in TRUTH.
Good Luck
The best advice I can give is
True Love is hard to come by, search for it with an honest heart and some integrity.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 December 2018): Maybe she was only using you to buy her things; and now her man is getting suspicious, and things are closing-in on her.
She doesn't really want to leave the relationship she's in. So back-off, her partner may be figuring things out. You might end-up in a tangle with him. He might tell your wife, if you have one.
Write it off. Decide if you need to keep a wife, if you're more concerned about keeping a mistress.
Now if you don't have a wife, but have a girlfriend; maybe it's time to breakup with her, if you're so worried about another woman.
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reader, Aunty BimBim  +, writes (6 December 2018):
 Sounds like her partner is suspicious and she is scared of losing all that she has, has she got children, maybe she is scared of losing them. Next time find a woman who isn't already involved elsewhere.
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reader, Andie's Thoughts  +, writes (6 December 2018):
 If you are married, stop. If she is married, stop. You can’t trust her not to find a new boyfriend if she comes “back” to you (she can’t come “back” to you because she’s her husband’s, not yours). Find a lady who is not married. You would not like someone trying to date your wife, so don’t do it to someone else.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 December 2018): That is it. It is over. You can't and shouldn't try to make her come back. It seems she has come to her senses and wants to safe her marriage. Consider yourself lucky that her husband didn't discover you are having an affair with his wife and pull you to courts and charge you for damages for breaking up his marriage or worse still he could have killed you. My advise respect her decision and stop.
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