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writes: I am 29 and married before two months. Every thing went well for two months. First my wife was not so interested in sex due to pain at the time of intercourse but I helped her to recover from that problem and we had complete sex up to 7 times .But during an occasion I faced the problem of erection and I am very upset and feared that some thing was wrong with me. Still the same problem occurs when I want to have sex and my penis is not getting that much of erection.I can masturbate even at that time but I can’t able to intercourse. Please help me… because I love my wife like anything and want to satisfy
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reader, des16  +, writes (24 November 2006):
 my boyfriend had this problem. this gets a little dirty but it worked for us so here goes.
i got him to lay on his back and look at me. i then stroked all over his body with soft finger tips or a feather over his most sensitive areas ( side of this chest down to the hip, into the inner thy) even the crease of the arm. not touching the penis, its a case of tease the surrounding areas but dont touch the main attraction.
dirty talk is always a good thing. if you dont like using the hardcore words, play with soft words like...i want to hold you down and place my lips to your nipples, to corress your breast in my hands, to run my fingers over you moist body.
sorry getting a little carried away... he he :-)
if all of these fail to excite then massage each other, (moisturiser is better than oils, and it leaves the hands and skin soft).
massage is fabulous and relaxing if you are relaxed and not thinking of the sex and the importance of an errection, then romance comes into play. soft kisses, corressing.
its all good!!
well i hope that you solve your love wand and can start enjoying your wife again.
good luck. xxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 November 2006): Many men experience this problem at some time or another. Were you anxious, depressed or maybe had drunk alcohol? All these things can cause unsatisfactory erections. Now that this has happened to you once, you are scared that it is going to happen to you again. In fact worrying about this, in itself can perpetuate the problem. I'd go and visit a doctor just to check you out and make sure that you have no underlying medical problem ie. diabetes. If all is ok then as above mentioned the doctor can prescribe medication to help you over this hurdle.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 November 2006): Talk to your doc about Cialis. Sounds like you have a mental block on this but a couple of times using "help" will get you over this and back on track.
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