A
female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:hiafter the sexual attacks that have happened to me in my past, and the names my parents shouted and called me weni told them really upset me and i will never tell them anything again. i now have my father in particular but along with the rest of my family going on about my weight to me constentatly passing commetns wen i eat. making jestures and everything. and its all getting to me. am not eating because of it. i have started to self harm and it feels good at the time takes away the emotions but it really hurts afterwards and i want to stop. i need to deal with my past and then that will be one thing of my mind but i can't get a counciler without telling my parents and i never goign to them with anythign again. am 17 btw Reply to this Question
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reader, Sugarbuns  +, writes (9 January 2008):
 Talk to your school, there should be a guidance counselor, or some other form of counselor available to students who go there. She/He may be able to help you or refer you to someone who can. You must stop abusing yourself, that is not the answer. You must learn to love yourself no matter what others have done or said to you, even your family. Self love is what prevails when others let you down. That and the love of God. I wish you the best.
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