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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:hey ok i have just left college and i have yet to begin my life i am 18 years old, i have been in a relationship for 4 years now, but just lately i feel that i could be out doing better things, hey your only 18 once right and im the kinda person to take advantage of life. i like to be out doing things and living life on the edge. anyways i want to let him down i love him of course i just dont feel as strong as i used to which is normal right? he is my first love and i know that they dont last forever like most people think they will. heres the thing it will break him and i mean like he would not be able to live without me and i know that due to previous experiences, i really want to finish it i want be able to live life i dont want to be stuck in this relationship i have needs that require broken hearts witch is the last thing i want but i need to do this please help me with this i have nether had to do any thing like this before and i need some help. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 November 2008): my girlfreind who is in her second year of university just ended our realtionship of 4 years im pretty much in the same position as your boyfreind! let him down as gently as you can explain to him u need some space and time alone, and that you dont want him hanging on because you think its going to be a permenant thing!(this is the way my girlfreind done it, and couldnt have done it in a better way!) say you cant see you together in the future and maybe in a few years once you have done all the things you want to do in life then you wil be ready to settle down.(please bear in mind that some time apart could mean that you cant live without him, and you will have a better relationship than last time.)just say that you just dont want to be with any 1 at the moment and just want to be single, hope this helps! keep me updated GOOD LUCK!
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