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writes:hey im 16 and iv been going out with my girlfriend for 2 years nd 8 months i think shes cheating on me but i love her and dont want to split up with her i just want to no if shes cheating on me how can i find out if she is cheating on me?
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reader, bmxbandit +, writes (16 December 2009):
bmxbandit is verified as being by the original poster of the questioncheers for your answers.
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reader, Beyoncefan01  +, writes (16 December 2009):
Ok. If you really love your girlfriend then you have to learn to trust her! You cant have love without trust. If you think that she is cheating on you then yall need to sit down and talk. And tell her why you think shes cheating on you and stuff. But dont accuse her unless you know for sure. Because if you accuse he and then you find out that she wasnt cheating on you, your going to mess yall relationship up! She's gonna feel like you dont trust her and shes gonna wanna move on.
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reader, person12345 +, writes (16 December 2009):
 What makes you think she is? Whatever that is, pursue it secretly. If you look up "signs she's cheating" on the web it will be the same 10 or 15 over and over again. Paying more attention to appearance than normal, overly protective of phone and email and such, unavailable for long periods of time, secretive phone conversations (leaving the room to talk and text), etc... It's hard to tell at your age, but you'll figure it out. Don't snoop unless you're 99% sure she is though, and don't try to make mountains out of molehills. You might find things that seems horrible but in fact aren't. They just seem that way because you were looking for it. Don't confront her with it yet. Look this up on google. There are some good suggestions.
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reader, Broken123  +, writes (16 December 2009):
 Talk to her about it but dont nag at her . If she really loves you she'l tell you .
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