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How do I convince my ex that I'm not a player?

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Question - (4 February 2012) 2 Answers - (Newest, 10 February 2012)
A male United States age 30-35, *ensativeguy010 writes:

I have a problem...

months and months ago i started talking to an Ex gf again and we started hanging out more, at the same time i was talking to this brand new girl that my cousin was roommates with, so eventually it got to a point where i would hang out with both of them(separately obv). And my Ex and i had talked about maybe trying things again way before i had ever started talking to the new girl, well as i spent time with both of them I would spend less and less time with my ex and more and more time with the new girl unintentionally and felt like my ex was distancing herself. so i started to focus more on the new girl well one night the new girl and i went to walmart and were walking in holding hands JUST as my ex was walking out and it was extremely awkward, well as you can guess a bunch of drama got started and i almost didnt end up dating either of them but the new girl really liked me and we ended up dating after the drama had past. But my problem is My ex seems to think i was just being a player, and im not gonna call her a lier yes i thought i was the shit talking to multiple girls but it wasnt my intention to just play games with both of them. I honestly dont know why i led my ex on but its more complicated than i can put down in words bcuz i still have feelings for her and wanted desperately to be back with her but then in the back of my mind i kept telling myself that its not worth it cuz i can just get hurt again which is mostly the reason why i distanced myself from my ex and focused on this new girl. But i think about it almost every day and i get so torn up over the entire situation how my ex just thinks i was playing games with her and that im an asshole, when its not like that at all. it was so hard for me to chose who to be with and what to do. Ive been wanting a chance to apologize to her..and tonight i went to walmart and sure enough saw her walking my way in the distance and without even thinking i walked the other way and avoided her cuz i was so scared...i dont know what to do...

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A female reader, aunt honesty Ireland +, writes (4 February 2012):

aunt honesty agony auntIf it is really bothering you that much then all you need to simply do is write her a letter or an email or even send her a message and just explain to her why you done what you did and what you where thinking at the time. Just be honest with her and tell her you do not want her to think bad of you and that you did still have feelings for her but you where just unsure at the time about what you wanted. That is pretty much all you can do in this situation.

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