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How do I become dominant? I thought I was but he considers me submissive!

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Question - (14 April 2009) 6 Answers - (Newest, 14 April 2009)
A female United States age 36-40, anonymous writes:

So today is my one year with my boyfriend and he's always said that he love having sex with me, but it bugged me one day when I was trying to be the dominant one he said that i was submissive. This was a while ago and tonight i want to show him that i can dominate him and have MY way with him. rather then the other way around ha ha. but truth be told, I don't know how to do this. We're open to many things, I was thinking of buying handcuffs or ropes or something, any suggestions, ideas, tips, toys, or techniques anyone could give me to rock his world tonight would be fabulous. Thanks for your time look forward to hearing from you.

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A female reader, Olivia(Y). United Kingdom +, writes (14 April 2009):

Olivia(Y). agony auntBuy handcuffs and tie him to somewhere is always a good dominant thing.

Make him do things to you. Make him get on his knees and tell him what to do to you.

When your having sex get on top and shout at him let him know exactly how you like it and make sure he does what you say. Really be in control of him. My boyfriend loves it when i tell him exactly what i want. He also loves it if i slap his bum and play fight (not hard just jump on him playfully).

Have fun!

Livia

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A female reader, Olivia(Y). United Kingdom +, writes (14 April 2009):

Olivia(Y). agony auntBuy handcuffs and tie him to somewhere is always a good dominant thing.

Make him do things to you. Make him get on his knees and tell him what to do to you.

When your having sex get on top and shout at him let him know exactly how you like it and make sure he does what you say. Really be in control of him.

Have fun!

Livia

xxx

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A female reader, Olivia(Y). United Kingdom +, writes (14 April 2009):

Olivia(Y). agony auntBuy handcuffs and tie him to somewhere is always a good dominant thing.

Make him do things to you. Make him get on his knees and tell him what to do to you.

When your having sex get on top and shout at him let him know exactly how you like it and make sure he does what you say. Really be in control of him.

Have fun!

Livia

xxx

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A female reader, Olivia(Y). United Kingdom +, writes (14 April 2009):

Olivia(Y). agony auntBuy handcuffs and tie him to somewhere is always a good dominant thing.

Make him do things to you. Make him get on his knees and tell him what to do to you.

When your having sex get on top and shout at him let him know exactly how you like it and make sure he does what you say. Really be in control of him.

Have fun!

Livia

xxx

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A female reader, Emilysanswers United Kingdom +, writes (14 April 2009):

You don't need to buy stuff.... just use a tie, or the cord from a dressing gown, or something so you appear to be doing it spontaneously.

Then tie him down and tell him that you are in charge and he has to be a good boy if he wants something. Tell him he has to say you are the best and most beautiful and most sexy and lots of other stuff. He'll probably tease you and refuse to say anything.

The trick is to tease him, rub his body and pants and make him feel really good and then if he's a naughty boy then stop immediately and hit his nose (really gently) and say he's a "bad boy!"

Just keep an eye on his hands and anything else with rope tied round them to make sure they don't go blue!!

Good Luck!! xx

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (14 April 2009):

I think he means he wants you to initiate things more.

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