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How do I avoid tempting my ex to cheat on his current g/f?

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Question - (4 April 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 4 April 2009)
A female United States age 30-35, *rystelle_22 writes:

so im 15[[sophomore]] and my ex is 18[[senior]];;he has a girlfriend, which is also my friend[[were fake with each other]]. well today during 3rd period i went to visit him. i knew we would at least kiss but i didnt know that we'd do more..he told me he never stopped loving me and he misses me..then i got so wrapped up in his eyes and we ended up touching and really making out..and now i wanna tell him i love him back but i dont wanna make him and his girl break up cuz i think she really likes him and i dont wanna be called a slut..so wat should i do??

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A reader, anonymous, writes (4 April 2009):

You don't want to be called a slut but the behaviour you are exhibiting is sluttish. This guy you are allowing to touch you is your friend's man. He can tell you anything but all he is doing is using you coz you are making your self available. If he still liked and wanted you, then he would be with you.

You're too young to be doing this. Please have some self respect and get your own man.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (4 April 2009):

i would back off alittle to wait and see what happens with his current girlfriend. if he loves you and misses you the way he says he does then he will make the decision. I would not make a move first. that g/f that you say is your friend will have hard feeling at you for a very long time.

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