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writes:Here's my story, I'm going to make it short. I really need help because I'm loosing it.I was in an emotional abusive relationship for about four months..when i got out of that relationship i felt so alive i thought i was over it after a couple of months we broke up but then he came into my life again saying he was sorry and that he missed me..i dont know what to do because i do miss him at times...this might sound insane but i miss the shitty feeling i always had when i was with him...he'd always treat me like shit and sometimes i miss that. he even cheated on me..or so some people say he did...but i dont know why i cant get over it. everytime i think im over it, he needs to come back to me or someone has to bring him up...we broke up about 6 months ago and whitin those six months the feelings keep coming back and then they go away..how can i get over him?...how can i move on with my life?
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 November 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks so much for both of you, your answers really helped!
i am still trying to forget about this and thinking like it was all a nightmare...hopefully that will help...? :(
and im glad to know im not alone going through this situation, good luck to you too mrs.c2b:)
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reader, cuteblonde124 +, writes (3 November 2008):
 well being with someone abusive, even emotionally is not good for your health. And in this situation you only need to think about what is right for you! he didnt treat you right, and if yall go out again he will just start treating you the same way. There are many great guys out there, espectially compared to someone who is abusive. all you have to do is put yourself back out there. try to forget about this guy who does not disserve you, and show him you are better without him. i know it wont be easy, and will take time, but think about yourself, and your health. good luck hun!
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 November 2008): Wow, well believe it or not you're not the only one who goes through things like that sweety. I've been in two "relationships" with guys like that and now I have a new bf who I've been woht for a year and 3 months but sometimes I find myself starting fights on purspose just to argue even though I know he has a temper and will say mean things. He's such a good bf but im so used to being mistreated that I don't know how to be normal without these conflicts. Its kind of hard to give you advice because I'm still dealing with recocery myself but I just wanted you to know that you weren't alone and things will get better. Although everyday is a struggle for me I must admitt that I've gotten better by farrrrrrrrrr! I think that when you find that right person they'll help you out. But remember one thing its important to be happy wiht yourself before you can be happy with anyone else.(I didn't randomly meet my bf btw, I met him my freshman year in highschool I always liked him since then but I let popularity get to my head and made the wrong choices when it came to guys). I wish you the best of luck!
With tons of love,
Mrs.C2B ; )
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