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*herie,
writes:iv been going out with my boyfriend for one year and 6 months. i went on holidayfor 10 days and rang him a copoul of times and when i didhe turned his fone off and stuff and was really nasty for no reason. i came home expecting him to be waiting for me,but he was camping not coming back home for two days !i was upset and angry. he ended it with me and says he didnt love me the minuit i went on holiday ?how could he just stop loving me ? and now he dont ring me or nothing hes being really weird and i am heartbroken ?what do i do and why is he doing this to me? x
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reader, Cherie, +, writes (31 May 2009):
Cherie, is verified as being by the original poster of the question thanks everyone .i am trying to get out with friendsalot but it is hard some-times .and the way we were i do really think he didlove me . it just faded from him i will try to stopgoign back to him, but love makes you do stupid thingsi am trying my hardest.
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 May 2009): It's a harsh reality, people grow and change.
The best you can do [though I know you really won't want to] is keep as much distance from him as you can. Don't be angry, but don't try to be his friend either. Keep yourself busy with other friends/hobbies/hangouts. If being alone makes you sad, hangout with you mom or dad [doesn't seem like fun now but you can really learn a lot from those guys!]
If you do this, you are setting yourself up to be happy and independant, which is very attractive to the right kind of guys. Also, maybe this boy will grow more, change even more, and you two could have something in the future. This doesn't work if you cling to him or try to stay friends while you care about him so much [little things he does being single will hurt you and you will become bitter]
Good luck, with whatever you do!
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 May 2009): There's nothing to do, Honey. We can't force people to love us, or want to be with us.
I know it hurts like hell, but it is time for you to move on. Find someone who will love you and care for you; someone who will treat you the way you deserve to be treated.
Go out and have fun with your friends and try to forget this jerk! You deserve better...and you will find it!
Britt
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