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How comes he wants to share me with another guy? Does he not love me as much as I thought?

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Question - (1 October 2007) 4 Answers - (Newest, 1 October 2007)
A male United States age 41-50, anonymous writes:

My boyfriend is in another country for few months already, and we are in touch every single day, phone or by internet ( camera),He usully make himself come when we are online or on the phone.

today he asked me to do something for him. He wants see me having sex with another man, a friend or my ex-husband.

We are together about 4 years and make love to him was always really good.

I dont want to sleep with another man because I love him so much I guess, after this our relationship is over, I really got hurt. How come?? He wants to share me with another man?? I guees he does not love me as I thought.Please comment..

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A reader, anonymous, writes (1 October 2007):

And another thing that's just occurred to me - he might be hoping you'd put on a display for him so that he could save the action to his hard drive and post it on the web. You'd just LOVE that, I bet!

Phil

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A reader, anonymous, writes (1 October 2007):

No, you're right to think he doesn't love you like you thought.

I'd call this a perverted fetish. Let him watch someone else 'at it'. Say goodbye to him.

Phil

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A female reader, s from wales United Kingdom +, writes (1 October 2007):

s from wales agony auntthats an horrendous thing to be asking the person that your supposed to love, no way, he,s a perv, get rid, i wouldnt give im the time of day, av sum respect for yourself, bin there done it, worn the t-shirt, dont do it. he has no respect for you.

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A female reader, DrPsych United Kingdom +, writes (1 October 2007):

DrPsych agony auntDifferent people have different views on love and sex. He obviously has different views to you and I can understand why you would feel disrespected and unloved. Don't give in to demands that make you feel uncomfortable. Perhaps it is just a sign this relationship isn't working out as you hoped.

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