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writes:Ok....I know I'm asking a lot of questions in a relatively short time but I'm stuck in a hard place at the moment....Ok so me and this girl went to her cabin with her family over the weekend. We where supposed to be "just friends" But last night I found myself basically having intercourse with her. We weren't even supposed to be sitting on the couch her family thought we where playing cards. She told me the whole time we were together that she loved me. But I am unsure at this time because she also said that she wants to try other people and she wants me to try other people but she wants me always and loves me....I'm so confused right now I would like to know if you can help me explain if she really does love me or I am falling for something that isn't real.Thanks Reply to this Question
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (8 November 2010):
 She has no idea what LOVE is. She likes you and is attracted to you, but love? Not quite.
You are BOTH so very young and it's quite possible that you BOTH will met other people and truly fall in love.
Spend time with her, if she still wants to "try" other people, she is not the one for you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 November 2010): She is interested in you, but maybe she thinks there are better options for her out there. IF you really like her then prove to her why you're the best for her. SHOW her you have the best personality and that you are the best option period.Don'ts: tell her you are the one for her, act like a dick, be too arrogant.Just act like before you were interested in her, except this time show her a bit more interest, tease her and play with her. Also make some skin to skin contact (don't make it obvious though, just sometimes instead of pointing with your finger to show her something, maybe turn her body to whatever the thing is) They key is not to act like you're trying too hard to get her, that will have the opposite effect - I know its easier said than done, but try your bestGood luckJason
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reader, bjo84 +, writes (8 November 2010):
She doesn't love you like you want her to love you. You're young and have much to learn. Love is a budding thing and takes years to full develope into something that sticks around. Love is work. Love is pain. Love is joy. Love is hate. Love is everything that is the complexity of human emotion. If she wants to try other people then you need to let her go. I know it's hard to hear but I'm just being objective with you. If you're the one that treated her best then she will eventually come back to you. Right now, it sounds like she loves you as a friend. That she cares about your feelings. It probably ends there though. Face it and hang in there.
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