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writes: I was just wondering if you guys think I'm on the rebound. I think I might be as I broke up with my b/f a few months back and still miss him and think about him A LOT. But this new guy has been messaging me, we have been out on one date and tonight he came over to mine to watch a movie. We haven't even kissed but we did some cuddling up tonight and it felt so good to be with a big strong man again! He is very attractive and makes me laugh and he has a kind heart from what I can tell. I'd like to see him more but am afraid he is just a rebound guy and I kind of like him too much to mess him around if that's the case. So how do I tell if I'm ready? Should I go for it or cool it off before it developes into more?
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reader, Lostandalone  +, writes (5 June 2006):
 I say go for it but go slowly because you don't know. Be careful because you don't want to hurt this guy and you still have feelings for your ex. I say do it just take it slow. Good Luck.
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reader, Smiler +, writes (5 June 2006):
 Hey sweetie
Well my advise to you would have to be forget the ex he's in the past you are moving on with your life... you have found someone who sounds very sweet and very genuine, like you say in yoyr letter you enjoyed being cuddled up to this guy and you seem to get on like a house on fire so you go for it live life to the full.... enjoy this time the guy your with i don't think your on the rebound obviously you will think about your ex every now and again thats completely natural, but once you start createing new memories with this new guy you will soon forget the ex, and leave him exactly where he belongs in the past.
I hope my advise helped you a little, Good luck sweetie, if you ever wanna talk or just more advise feel free to email me i'm always here for you ok would love to hear from you again
You Take Care Sweetie X
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reader, smeedle  +, writes (5 June 2006):
 Go for it, you like him, he likes you and do you really want to miss out on this lovely bloke for feelings that may or may not be rebound.
Who is to know if you are ready or not just go for it and deal with any issues as they come along.
Just make sure you tell him you want to go slow with him as you have just come out of a seriouse relationship and was hurt.
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