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*upyup911
writes:Hey cyber world,I'm 24 years old and I have been with my current girlfriend for the past four years. When it comes to our sex life, well I can explain it pretty simply, boring. I almost feel as if it is a chore for her to have sex with me unless she is drunk then she is more into it. She doesnt want to try new things, and her performance is really bad sometimes. If I try to talk to her about it then she calls me a pig and gets mad at me. Any advice for how I can relay the message to her that I'm not sexually satisfied without fighting with her?
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 June 2008): Lexilou makes a good point.
Have you tried suggesting new things whilst you're having sex?
It sounds like a tricky situation!
Try talking to her again. Try not to insult what she is doing, but tell her that you'd love to take your sexual relationship to new levels.
Good Luck. x
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reader, lexilou  +, writes (16 June 2008):
 Well as you've already said she wont try new things and just seems to lay there thinking of england (an old english expression!) then there is only one answer. You have to talk to her whether it causes a problem or not, you just have to convince her to be quiet and let you have your say about this subject and ask her opinion of your sex life too. It could be your not doing something right in her eyes but she is too embarrassed to say.
Tell her although sex is not the be all and end of all of a relationship it is very important to you and you feel the rest of the relationship is suffering because she refuses to talk about it.
Good luck x
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