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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:So, I've been dating a guy for 7 months now. We are completely in love and are close to moving in together. We met through my work friend, Victoria. She and him were high school buddies and have loads of memories and things in common. Now the problem is, Victoria is amazing. She's every guys dream girl, beautiful, funny, smart, great body, just perfect. My boyfriend used to be in love with her back in the day, even had a heart around her picture in his yearbook. eehh. Im so scared that one day she's gonna look at him and be like oh my god your an amazing guy why did i ever pass you up. They go out a lot, to bars, comedy shows... things that I can not do because im not 21 yet(which is a lot.) She's a big flirt and it just kills me to know that they're out having a ton of fun together, drinking and dancing and laughing together. I know that they would never intentionally hurt me, but how can I stop worrying and not be so jealous?
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (19 February 2008):
 Faith is believing. To believe what you have not seen is great faith.
Try to think positive and believe that everything is fated.Whatever comes, accept it as you fate.
If you are religious, cast your worries and burden unto Jesus.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 February 2008): Hi Hunny
Your an amazing young lady, To know how your b/f had feelings for this friend once and to understand their friendship and victoria is a lucky girl to have you as a friend I hope she appreciates what a lovely person you are, And that my love is why your b/f is with you.
Im going to send you a link on self esteem this link is great you can talk to other women that have the same worrys and there is so much help and guidence I do hope it helps you darling and your b/f realises just how special you are.
http://www.selfesteem4women.com/index.php?ad=lm614
If you need a chat at anytime hunny Im here YOU TAKE CARE OF YOU SWEETHEART WITH LOVE N HUGS MANDY XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
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