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writes: How do I Put my pride aside n have sex with a boy ive been spending alot of time with lately?. Im 18, hes 20. I'm horny but I dont want him 2 think i'm easy! He has alredy asked me 2 b his girlfriend but I sed i didnt wanna rush things. Wot Should I do? I'm confused. HELP!
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reader, Phoebe Halliwell +, writes (11 August 2006):
Hey,
well you should have sex until you feel you're 100% ready. Being horny doesn't mean you're ready to have sex, it just means you want to!
If you don't want him to think you're easy, how about playing hard-to-get? Make him want you more, by the end of it, the only one making themself look easy is him!
Don't rush into it, you'll regret it later.
Hope this helped,
phoebe
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reader, xxxsoulsistaxxx +, writes (10 August 2006):
There's no reason a girl can't have sexual desires just like a man, this is 2006! If you want to be satusfied, then you have a right to be, just like a man does when he goes out and has sex!
This guy obviously likes you, as he asked you to be his girlfriend. If you don't want that, don't worry, that doesn't mean you can't sleep with him. I know this sounds like crazy advice and some people may disagree with me but I don't see why a woman can't be sexually gratified by a man who isn't her partner, as long as everyone knows it's just sex, no one is being used and everyone involved is careful and protects themselves.
If you don't want to rush things and think maybe he will be a boyfriend one day, then don't have sex just yet. See if anything materialises first, as having sex too early can wreck the chances of a relationship being successful.
Good luck and have fun
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