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writes:Me and my bf have been going out just over a month (was a month on monday) :). I've always had a little thing for him aswell. Anyways...We spend the weekends round each others houses (he lives an hours bus ride away, but we both go to the same college) and he's coming to my house this weekend. Usually our weekends are stay in bed and watch tv/ movies or play on the Xbox. But this weekend I want it to be special, Friday night we're taking the Xbox downstairs with the quilts and playing Left 4 Dead. I know it doesnt sound special but it's something fun. Problem is.. I don't know how to make things special. I'm completly useless when it comes to that sort of thing. So how could I make this weekend more special than my weekends usually are? Also, when we get round to sex whenever the time comes, I wanna feel sexy for him, not just cute wearing his tshirt and my underwear. Any ideas how I could do this, without wearing a thong or peepy holed bras?Thanks for the help :)
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reader, Griffo  +, writes (12 March 2009):
 Yep thats right you dont have too make love but you asked for something different or nice. And love making IS nice.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 March 2009): You don't have to make love to him for it to be special. I'm about the same age as you, 17, and personally if I want to have some quality time with my boyfriend, we go and find somewhere nice and quiet, like by a lake or something, and we just talk for hours, play fight, and just generally mess about. What makes it beautiful is how natural it is. A nice surrounding helps, but really all you need to make something special is you and your boyfriend. Corny as it may sound, why not take a picnic somewhere or something? I'm not saying that sex doesn't make things special, of course it does, but if you havn't got to this stage yet, and you really are just looking to spend some quality time with your boyfriend, think outside the box. Obviously, I don't know what works for you, but I hope this helps :)
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reader, Griffo +, writes (4 March 2009):
To make it special or remembered you would have to do something out of the ordinary. Are you wanting to make love with him? Will it be your first time with him? What so what do you really want to achieve?
Say if you did want to make love with him then just be your self be comfortable you don't have to do something different because making love is special in inself.
If I'm wrong then buy him a new game or something like that. Or a little more romantic make him a nice dinner but make it funny and not too serious.
It all depends on what you want which I don't think you defined enough in your question.
Have fun!
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