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writes: ive had so much on my mind recently and just dont know hwo to get it out. ive recently broken up with my bf, cus i felt it had all changed and simply wasnt in love with him anymore. i feel my last 2 relationships have ended up all being sexually based and i dont want tht in my next boyfriend i just want someone who is my boyfriend but is also my bestmate. but i feel people who know about my past 2 relationships will just think i mite b easy. how can i make sure the next guy is really something Reply to this Question
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reader, Katylouise +, writes (8 October 2006):
I know exactly how you feel i had a boyfriend and then it felt like sex was all i was getting from other guys when i just wanted companionship! The best thing that you can do is to not rush into anything with another guy in fact stay single for the time being the right guy will come to you but only when the time is right. In the meantime enjoy going out and surround yourself with your friends. A boyfriend will come along soon x
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 October 2006): I've been in this situation with some of my ex boyfriends. The best advice i can give you hun, is wait before you do anything sexual or sleep with a guy. Making him wait, shows him that you respect yourself and are not willing to just jump into bed with anybody. I'm not saying you do this, but that is how somw guy's mind works.
When you next meet a guy, and he wants to get sexual, just tell him that your not ready yet, and you want to wait. If he respects you enough, he WILL wait until YOU are ready. If he dosen't then he isn't worth your time darling.
Good luck and take care
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 October 2006): Well the only way to find out if the next guy is really something is by holding off on the sexual side of your relationship for a while, some times guys respect you more for that rather than see you jumping straight into bed with them the first time you meet them!!! That to them looks like you are EASY!! (not saying that you are)
Men love the chase, if a girl gives in to easy the chase is over. Play hard to get with them...
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