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How can I increase my man's sex drive...??

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Question - (16 June 2008) 4 Answers - (Newest, 9 July 2008)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

How do I increase my Man's sex drive? Even when he has an erection he's not horny.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (9 July 2008):

Dear Seeker,

I too have been suffering the painful truth of my boyfriend not being nearly as horny as me. While society says womens sex drive does not compare to mens, I have found myself to be the opposite. On that note after many years of searching for "what is the matter" with my boyfriend who also have an erection without excitment (and continue at length without and orgasm) I believe I understand him to be and Highly Sensitive Person (HSP). which means he must approach sex entirely different. Much gentler, a lot slower with long touches that are not intrusive to his "personal comfort". Afterall he is not broken but has a very heightened sense of everything at once. I think sex after the long approach could result in a good partnership. Good luck...i am trying my best too! Its so hard to be patient when you want sex now!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (17 June 2008):

that is a very unusual age to NOT be horny....you should ask him if he is happy with your sex life. If his answer leaves more questions than he's answered, there may be something more going on. Keep your eyes and ears open to see if he leaves any clues, sometimes the answer is right there and we don't recognize it. also, check out this web-site npsupport.net

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A female reader, yourwifey United States +, writes (17 June 2008):

i think you should dress sexy and everything like she said maybe even cook for him like foods that have endorphins

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A female reader, countrygirlWV United States +, writes (17 June 2008):

countrygirlWV agony auntHave u tryd to wear sexy little out fits for him. My man usually enjoys seeing that even when he's had a hard days work. Maybe going down on him and ofering to try something new might help.

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