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*urplelily74
writes:My name is friendly I have a question about my friend he is 40 going to be 41 in November we been friends for a year and we haven't had sex for awhile he said to about his cock is dead. What can I do to help him From your friend Reply to this Question
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reader, hilary  +, writes (19 May 2020):
 How is it your responsibility to sort out his problem for him? Is he unable to speak? Unable to make phone calls? Unable to go to a doctor? Is he chained up in your basement? No. He is supposedly a grown adult who can interact and contact and speak same as anyone else.And as he is a male he ought to understand about his penis far better than you do.
Is he the only man on the planet? Are you concerned that if you do not fix his problem you will never get serviced again? Let me tell you something. The average stupid guy has a struggle to get women for sex, a real struggle. Most of them have a non existent sex life because they are boring and undesirable and ordinary, nobody wants them. I have known young men who are so boring and ordinary that the only way they ever have sex is when they masturbate or pay women. These women are bored to tears with these men and would not bother if not paid.
I promise you there are lots of men out there who would jump at the chance of servicing you. All they would care about is that you are young, attractive and willing.
So why are you wasting your time on this lazy twit?
Does he expect you to solve all of his problems or just this sexual one? IF he was unemployed would he expect you to go to job interviews and sort out a new job for him? Would he expect you to give him money and pay his bills? Where does this end?
Why are you even considering continuing with this lazy boring childish guy? He offers you nothing at all.
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reader, BrownWolf  +, writes (12 May 2020):
My dear...You have a very lazy man. So lazy he does not want to help himself, or simply can't be bothered.
Most men are proud to have their penis working to the best of its ability. Viagra was not created for men who likes to have "dead cocks". For centuries, men have been drinking bush medicine, eating roots, and coming up with all kinds of fixes for "dead cocks". They want it bigger, longer, to last for hours in bed. Heck...back in the medieval times, women were the prizes in wars...why?? SEX!! The porn industry is worth Billions...why? For men who accept having "dead cocks??" I think not.
If you are a sexual woman, waiting on a lazy man to make you happy in bed, you might as well close up shop on sex. A lazy person is as irritating as smoke in your eyes.
If his cock is dead and he is not aking the effort to wake it up, then have a funeral service for it, and move on. Find yourself a willing and lively penis. Because is his case, his penis is not problem, the one who it's attached to is.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (9 May 2020):
 Probably the BEST thing you can do is tell him to go see a doctor. It can be low testosterone, it can be other medical issues that prevent him from having an erection.
Not something YOU can fix for him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 May 2020): He has to see a doctor to be tested. It could be related to diabetes, or the side-effect of a medication. He may not want to have sex with you anymore; but he still would like to remain friends.
He may want to start seeing other women, and remain friends with you.
Would you want to end your friendship if he can no longer have sex, or if he met another lady? If you are only friends with benefits, he doesn't always have to have sex with you. He can see other women.
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reader, kenny +, writes (9 May 2020):
 I think the only thing that you can do for him is get him to seek medical advice.
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reader, Aunty BimBim  +, writes (9 May 2020):
 This is really something that you can't help with, apart from suggesting your friend see a doctor to find out if the problem can be rectified. If he wont go and see a doctor then you need to decide if sex is important within your relationship.
Some people are able to have full, loving committed relationships without sex but for other people it is a very important part of their lives. Decide which you are and then you will be able to decide whether to continue with the friendship or not.
Good luck.
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