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male
age
30-35,
*illi.joe
writes: I've known a gal since many year. We loved each other, but now I guess she doesn't love me any more... we had sex. I gave her everything I could possibly give. She is going to marry another guy.. I am so depressed. I meditated, tried everything but it just doesn't work.. Sometimes I forget her but make a promise never to talk to her again, but whenever she calls me I forget everything and love her again. She just doesn't go away from mind. I cant think or concentrate in anything, mind is full of her thoughts. please help me.. I love you guys.
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reader, Spades +, writes (20 June 2010):
It takes time to get over things like this. It's not going to happen over night. I would recommend cutting contact with her for a while to let yourself heal.
Continue living your life. Talk to someone close to you if you can. Allow yourself to feel whatever you're feeling.
Cry it out if you need to.
Eventually, you'll reach a point where it doesn't bother you.
Best of luck! xx
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