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writes: Now that I'm single again, I want to go out and meet new women, my problem is I get real nervous when trying to talk to them and sound like a complete idiot. I don't talk loud enough, stumble over words, etc. I always fear them saying NO or that they have a BF. I've always liked girls that come to me better for this fact.Also, nowadays, it seems that all these nice girls are stuck with what I like to call a$$holes, who think their $hit don't stink. They have, for lack of a better term, that fake MTV or whatever look. All prepped out and dressing like they're black, I don't know how to explain it. (Not meant to be racist)What happened to the days of the honest, chivalrous guy, like myself, is it true that chivalry is dead? I'm just a regular everyday guy and hate seeing all these people with these fake images.I went off topic, but is there anymore good girls out there? And what can I do to get some confidence to talk to them?
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 October 2006): There's plenty of nice girls out there too - maybe your just not looking in the right places or for the right girl... And another thing - girls and guys alike always fear been rejeceted and by someone saying no to them!! Your not alone there I can tell you! When you meet a girl you like, know in your head what you want to say to them before hand, have a few topics to talk about but don't say it like you have them learned off by heart! Most girls prefer guys who are natural and act themselves, who make them laugh and feel good about themselves... Go out be yourself and enjoy yourself too
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