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writes:I am 32 and my husband is 40 we have been married nearly 10 months. Before we were married we had lots of sex, now its once a week if that. We both work hard and can be invoicing until late at night, when we do finally go to bed we are shattered. Well should I say my husband is more than me, he always says he is tired we go to be - i kiss him and thats it. Not that i am a sex maniac or anything but surely despite being tired he should want to be close to me in some way?? We get on so well and i really love him but i guess i don't feel loved by him, perhaps the fact that he would want to have sex with me would help?? Any advice or any tips to make my husband want to have sex with me his wife?? After 10 months it feels pretty pathetic - but i guess if he is tired? and he has a very strenous job? Reply to this Question
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reader, devotdeva  +, writes (11 May 2008):
I have had the same problem. I am also a maniac, that is one of the reasons I married my husband...We had sex constantly. I was once where you are, no it has been 2 years since he has even touched me, I have become mean and angry. I now sleep in the spare bedroom. I am thinking about moving out ! I can do this any more!
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 May 2008): let him know what hes missin
re ignite the fire
:P go for it
act sexy
roleplay have aromantic meal
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 May 2008): Stress leads to being tired later. I think when we have to work with other people, it is only a matter of time that we will become stressed.
I've been in his shoes before, and fear to start something that I either can't finish or perform well. Communication is very important.
I had a girlfriend that read me pretty well, knew how to handle my natural reactions, such as, she tried laying on top of me in the morning, as I was sleeping, and I slapped her. Later, she asked me if I recalled hitting her. Stunned, I asked "when?" Later, when she would do this again, laying on top of me, she would take my arms and cross them on my chest, then she would lay on top of them, and then gently kiss my neck, face, etc until I came out of my sleep, and I woke up feeling warm and happy; with a smile.
You could ask him if he wouldn't mind if you took advantage of him while he was asleep. Tell him you'll try your best not to disturb him, but give no guarantees that he won't cum (with a smile) while your getting your infusion. My girlfriend at the time would do this to. I learned I could be half asleep and not be bothered by her playing. Of course, I might moan and be carrying a smile, and it was the best way to fall asleep.
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