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writes:I've been with my girlfriend for nearly 3 years now, I absolutly adore her. We've went through our points of no sex and points where we've had sex like crazy. It was a point where she was very aggressive about wanting sex now she isn't as agressive. She says she always wants to do it but she feels like I don't. I just don't always push it because I don't want her to feel pressured. Is there anything I can do to bring that boldness back out of her? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 June 2007): No, it's because you've been together for 3 yrs. now. Sex isn't as exciting now, & she doesn't feel as though she has to act like a nympho to keep your interest in her anymore. Just tell her how u feel. If she doesn't act the way she used to it's b/c the relationship is different now & she's a little different too I am sure. Can you imagine a couple who's been together for 20 plus yrs. still acting the way they did when they 1st got together? Things simmer down a lot as you grow into the relationship. It's a good thing.
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reader, YummyMummy  +, writes (19 June 2007):
 If it's definetly because she's not sure whether you want it or not then drop suttle hints to her. I can also tell when my partner is frustrated as he starts talking about sex all the time.
My sex drive has dropped a lot recently as I'm pregnant but I think mine was on a decline before I fell pregnant. It goes up and down like a yoyo sometimes. Talk to her some more about her feelings on why she's not as hot as she was :)
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