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writes:Heyy everyone i really need help! ]=okay so i been with my boyfriend for about 3 months and he was a virgin while he was with me until yesterday when he gave it up to me. but he wasnt my first and he knows that we'll anyways i love oral sex!! and im down with giving him oral sex no problem but he is so ify about giving me oral sex! ughh it sucks i mean i told him its not nasty and he can trust me blah blah i even tried putting my fingers in my ver jay jay and try putting it in his mouth to show him its not nasty but he wont do it plus he's still kinda shy..grr can someone give me advice please before i go crazy and just sit on his face unwillingly lol.
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reader, twinlab99 +, writes (9 April 2010):
 I know how you can!!! Tell him. YOu want a blowjob. You need to go down on me first and make me cum. Bottom line. Trust me that will work1!!!!!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 March 2010): What is wrong with this boy? Waht self-respecting male has to be CAJOLED into eating out his girlfriend?Sex, in all its forms is one of lifes great pleasures and he is a great moron for letting it pass him by.Just tell him you want him to eat you out and its a deal breaker. It is a sexual desire of yours you wish to share with him and that you will indeed be more than happy to return the favour.Tell him to man the fuck up and get with the proper sex. The time for awkwardness is over. The time for exploring each other and your sexual desires is here.Flynn 24
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reader, Illithid +, writes (27 March 2010):
 Be patient with him, be gentle, give him some time, and don't nag him about it. The more you pressure him into it, the more you're going to make him defensive and hesitant. You already knew he was a virgin and he's already given this to you, so he just needs some time to get more comfortable being sexual with you.
And know that he doesn't HAVE to give you oral any more than a woman HAS to give oral to a man. He's already leaving his comfort zone for you, so be a little patient with him, ok? You've only been with him for three months, and only been sexual with him for ONE DAY.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 March 2010): pushing him into it isn't going to work and seeing as he only popped his cherry yesterday means he is already taking pretty big steps. Just take it slow and as he becomes more comfortable with both of your bodies he may be tempted to experiment. But some people will never like oral sex and that is just something you have to accept - i give my boyfriend blowjobs but i don't overally enjoy it, if i could go the rest of my life without them then no doubt i personally would lol :)Just take your time and use protection, even for oral sex :)
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