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writes:ok, my question is: How can I get my girlfriends parents to trust me? I am 19 and my girlfriend is 15, the age difference is a problem to them and I understand that. I really care about this girl and I want her parents to knw that I truly care about her too. In my small town everyone knws about me and my gf age difference and some care and most don't. But the ones that do care make sure to tell her parents about it. And my gf's mom is getting fed up with them telling her that it's her fault for letting us be together. And when she gets mad she doesn't let me see her and is kinda threatening to not let me see her at all. I think that everyone thinks we are gonna mess around and do bad stuff but that's not wat I want and I want to show everyone that. How can I show my girlfriends parents and everyone else that I love my gf for who she is, and not wat she can do for me.? Reply to this Question
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (21 November 2008):
You just have to be very respectful, go round for dinner and get to know them, always have her home on time, never be seen in town doing anything more than kissing.
Give it time.
At the end of it all though, if her parents do decide the age gap is too much then you may just have to be friends for a while till she gets older.
Good Luck!! xx
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