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writes:Whenever I want sex or pleasure, my bf doesnt want to. and Usually tells me [take care of it yourself]Firstly, if I wanted to take care of it myself, I wouldnt need to be with him. and Secondly, taking care of it myself, is NOTHING like when he does it.Ive read that some women, its better if they do it theirselves, but with me its not. and I try to explain that to him, but I guess he doesnt believe me.Am I doing something wrong to not to be able to enjoy it just as much by myself as with him? Reply to this Question
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reader, DoubleM +, writes (26 July 2008):
 In my opinion, your boyfriend is not much of a man if he has no interest or ability to sexually please his woman. The vibrator suggestions are reasonable, but to me sound like a sad solution to remedy lack of loving attention from your partner. One of your sentences says it all, "Firstly, if I wanted to take care of it myself, I wouldn't need to be with him." There are better men than him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 July 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI have vibrators =]
Umm, no, hes not watching porn. I did find a couple magazines in the bathroom.
I guess hes got a great imagination.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 July 2008): A vibrator (get a rabbit)and some porn definately make it more intense. That doesn't solve the problem with why he doesn't want sex, this seems to come up way too frequently on this board...is he masterbating with porn? It will kill his desire for real sex if he does this too frequently.
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reader, meadowsweet  +, writes (25 July 2008):
get a vibrator they are brill....you wont be disapointed
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