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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes: I cant get over a guy i met couple months ago. When we first was talking everything was going good, till I found out that he was bestfriend with my Ex....Of course ex's get jealous so he basically brain wash the guy i liked n told him different lies about me. how i use to be a bad girlfriend, well i told them both i wasn't, my ex was, he smoke pot everyday and couldnt keep a girlfriend because all he wanted was pot and sex. Well weeks past, and like me and the guy finally stopped talking. my friend told me, he finally listened to my ex and now they are like brothers. Months went through and out of the blue, the guy messaged me. asking if we wanted to hangout. well of course i said sure. and that day/night.. we all got drunk and did what he wanted, sex. of course we used condoms n i wanted it too. i wanted it to be a one night stand, but everytime i think about him, i have that old same feelings for him again, of course he doesnt anymore, ever since i threw up evry where in his house. haha. but the problem is, how can i get him out of my head and wont effect me in the future?
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reader, Teacake +, writes (22 November 2008):
Nature will take care of that for you. In the future though I suggest you stay away from one night stands as it results in emotional torment, as well as embarrassing moments, (though the throwing up is funny!) a reputation for being easy to use and take advantage of and stds and pregnancy.
Always make sure you date boys who don't know each other because they gossip and lie. Always make the girl sound like she's a slut.
If a boy pressures you for sex, he is not worth being in your life. They are very horny and are not interested in settling down with one girl usually. At least not the horny boys.
Tell them both to get lost and as soon as you meet someone you like, you will barely remember either of those boys names. LOL
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