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How can I gain more confidence with maintaining relationships?

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Question - (27 June 2010) 1 Answers - (Newest, 27 June 2010)
A female Nigeria age 30-35, *deola writes:

Hi,

i'm a 21yr old gurl and just started a rltshp about a week ago with a 24yr old guy.i like him very much and really want this to last but i always doubt that i'll mess the whole rltshp up and it wont last. the thought just keeps comin and i'm scared.. before now, i've been off guys for 18 mnths. i don't know if dis is responsible for my feeling that i'm incapable of keeping a rltshp,thanx

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A female reader, AmyAnnonamous United Kingdom +, writes (27 June 2010):

I used to be alot like you, i've only ever had 2 boyfriends in my life, i was seeing guy i was REALLY interested in for about 3 weeks, then we officially got together for 3 days, people knew about it, and i doubted it REALLY bad, and i told him i did, and after 3 days of being official he left me for no entire reason, then the next day he slept with my best friend. so since then, every boy i got with i treat quite bad and didn't stay with them, until i found the boy im with now, i've been with him for 7 month and im happier than ever! were very much in love and it's amazing. so maybe this is your guy like mine, all you need to do is not tell him you doubt him and see how it goes and i promise you, you'll find the right one, and i hope this is him for you! good luck xx

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