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writes:I have a female friend and have a crush on her from last three months. She is having a boyfriend and their marriage talks are going on. But its not confirmed as of now. While talking to her, it seems she is having interest in me.Maybe I am wrong, but she cares a lot.She didn't talk to anyone else. She is a real gem and simply down to earth.I have a trust in her. But she doesn't want to ditch his boyfriend. As that guy is her old friend too. She is a real girl.I don't want to share my feelings as I know she is having a commitment and I don't want to lose her as she is my best pal too. But how I can know her feelings about me? Any suggestion will be appreciated.Thanks
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reader, N91  +, writes (18 January 2018):
 If she doesn't want to break up with her BF and she's discussing marriage then it's clear she doesn't have any feelings for you.
Stay clear of their relationship and if you can't control your feelings then you need to distance yourself from this girl.
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reader, Denizen +, writes (18 January 2018):
 Just back off. If she is interested she will make it plain. At the moment you are just confusing her life. We can only guess how her relationship with her current boyfriend will turn out but you are just confusing the situation.
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reader, ashleighkaylin  +, writes (18 January 2018):
 I'm sorry but it sounds like it would be best to leave her alone. How does her future husband feel about you two being friends? You sound like you don't want to break up the relationship and try to take her for yourself though. I guess I just don't understand: what would be the point in telling her your feelings? If she likes you too, she still needs to focus on her future husband. I think she may see you as just a friend and she feels safe around you. I would hate for you to lose her (and her future husband) as friends. I guess just try to see them as a unit as in "Andrew and Hannah" instead as "Andrew" and "Hannah". I know that will be hard but does that make sense?
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