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writes: i would like to know how an unhappy married woman can enjoy her christmas celebration?
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 December 2005): It's difficult but a start with a positive change in attitude and a determination to count your blessings in life and not allow your 'unhappiness' to over-ride the joy of the holiday season. I do think you are going through one of the most painful things that can happen to anyone, to feel despondent and unhappy at such a wonderful time of year. If you have children or other family members you love, try your best to spend as much quality time with them to take your mind off your sorrow. As hard as it is, try to set a loving examples of being everything a person should be-committed, honest, caring, open, loving, responsible, calm, forgiving and understanding. you family members and your children will flourish with such examples. So will you. Christmas is a time of giving...a good thing to consider is 'volunteering' at homeless shelters to help, those who have very little. They are always looking for people to help with serving meals over the holidays. Look into it and don't forget, go to church and get in touch with prayer. I have found in times of duress...a little prayer was incredibly healing for me. But..I am sorry, I know it is hard. Take care and I wish wish you well.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 December 2005): your post didn't give much insight into your situation. i don't know why you are unhappy, or if it has anything to do with it being christmas. so here is my advice: christmas is a celebration. so celebrate in the way that makes you happiest. whether it is trimming the tree, wrapping presents, baking cookies, throwing or going to parties..you name it. if you are seriously unhappy in your marriage, get a divorce or sort out the problem. try to set your marriage problems aside and enjoy the festivities with or without your husband. you don't need a man to have a happy holiday.
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