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*Candice16!
writes: Hi. Im 13 and fell in love for the first time. the guy i love broke my heart and we went out five times. each time i fell for his tricks. and im trying not to again. i dont understand why i dont feel the agonizeing pain like i did before. and i can never seem to be truly satisfied or happy with guys i go out with. i feel like i need the right person. someone im looking for. im an outgoing, mysterious, tough yet sweet, adventurous, laid back, and romantic girl. how do i find a guy who can meet my needs or be a good match for me? plus, how can i tell if a guy likes me? p.s. im allowed to have a bf 2 years older than me. how can i tell he will be the right one, or be someone tht i can trust? guys and females R allowed to answer. i need all or u peopls help. Plzzz!!!!!
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reader, !Candice16! +, writes (23 September 2008):
!Candice16! is verified as being by the original poster of the question thank u guys for all the advice. its not th i dnt have fun wit my girlfriends or i dnt concentrate on my studies its just tht im so scared tht if i dnt find a nice guy tht il always be used. but im young so ur all right. i have my whole life ahead of me . thank you all soooo much !! u guys made me see how stupid i sounded! lol jk ! thnks 4 all of ur help!
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (19 September 2008):
I advise you to age several years.
Boys of your age are idiots. They are little imature children and they will hurt you.
If you chose to date at 13 then accept they are going to treat you like crap because they don't know any better.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 September 2008): You shouldn't be worrying about this at your age! You got the rest of your adult life to think about things like this. Just go out and have fun, focus on your studies and freinds. It's naive to expect too much from boys and girls at that age
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reader, Tremor  +, writes (19 September 2008):
 You can never tell for certain whether a guy will be 'the right one'. That's why we date them - to find out. My advice in that regard is to look for a guy who you can talk to easily or have a joke with, and who you don't feel like you have to change for or impress.
Because you are only 13, it's likely you'll find a few duds. At your age, you're still only learning about the ins and outs of relationships, so don't feel bad if you make some bad decisions.
And remember not to date just for the sake of it - if you feel nothing for a guy, don't just date him in the hope that something will eventuaute, or just so you can say you have a boyfriend. Being single isn't the end of the world.
You are only young, you have YEARS to find yourself a nice guy. No need to rush into it now. Good luck.
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reader, BaileeKS +, writes (19 September 2008):
Here is the point. You are 13, you haven't experience true romantic love, nor will you for awhile. You have absolutely no conception of the word love. You are young, just have fun. Don't go look for a boyfriend because a good healthy relationship is going to come when your least expecting it. This time in your life is supposed to be fun, and you don't need some guy around to have fun. Go have fun with your girlfriends and maybe even make some guy friends who are just friends.
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