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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Hey allSo theres this girl I met last semester. I kinda had a crush on her for a solid 2 months then finally one night we kissed, right at the end of the semester. We only got to hang out for one more night until the break where I slept over at her place; no sex, just cuddled all night I guess. It was an awesome feeling.Then she had to leave for 4 months for a work term in another city. I feel like I've been robbed (although I don't blame her at all). This 4 months of waiting is seriously gonna suck.So I guess I have a few questions.How am I gonna wait this out without going crazy? We've been talking everyday on IM and text. I feel like I'm becoming obsessed with this girl even though I haven't seen her in almost a month... and there still 3 to go. Am I talking to her too much?She is coming to visit next weekend. One night she is visiting friend and he next nigh we will be hanging out. So far we've made very informal plans. How serious should this night be? I feel like it will be very crucial, considering I probably won't be able to see her again for another month. Should I make it a night to remember me by (if you catch my drift)? Would going out for dinner or something be too serious at this point?bah, just so confused at the moment.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 January 2010): i think its sweet how you feel about her but ask her how she feels about you before you start feeling realy serious about her.you are brave to spend that much time apart i know i could nt but just ask her .ps dinner is perfect
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 January 2010): What your are feeling is infatuation and lust. You are not being satisfied so you think about her constantly, it's normal your not crazy.When she comes to visit, don't plan on having sex, just see where the night takes you. Go to dinner, maybe a movie....just spend time together AND take a deep breath when you feel overwhelmed.
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