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writes:I'm having a realtionship for 10 months(committed), and recently my boyfriend admitted that he cheated on me twice, and both the times he was very drunk, he said he was really sorry and asking me for a second chance?? i do love him alot.. but i dont know what to do?? help??
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reader, humble  +, writes (26 July 2007):
do you think you could deal with this for the rest of your life? if so, take him back. if not, it's probably time to move on. his actions have already proven that he doesn't love you quite as much as you love him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 July 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionhey guys, thanks alot... u guys made it easier for me to think of what i wanted to do...
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reader, flower girl  +, writes (26 July 2007):
 If you think he is genuine and you can get past this, then take him back.
Take care.xx.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 July 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionhe met me today, and he told me had no ways that he can justify himself, and he doesnt want to, and that he was realy sorry.. all he wants is another chance to make things right, and he knows wat he did, he was sorry?? wat do i do??
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reader, Michelley-ox +, writes (26 July 2007):
 if you feel you can still trust him and move on from this then yes you should take him back
but i think if hes stupid enough to cheat on you twice and you take him back he'll just think your a push over and he can cheat on you and you will take him bach you dont really want to be in that possition do you? by the sound of it he doesnt desevre to be with you if hes cheated them maybe he should just be single
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reader, flower girl +, writes (26 July 2007):
I love the excuse drunk, if you can stand up, walk and have another drink then you know what you are doing.
I do believe in second chances but i'm not sure about third especially for the same thing.
Take care.xx.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 July 2007): Leave him. He shouldn't have gotten that drunk. And even if he did once, he should've known enough not to do it a SECOND time. Once a cheater, always a cheater. If I were you, I'd leave him. You love him a lot, but he obviously doesn't love you back enough to stop sleeping around.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 July 2007): once would be good enough for me. But TWICE ! Sorry babe. Id be gone !
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